"Tantra" Sowing the Seeds of Love, Truth and Beauty
Tantra is a manifestation art. It is a place where we can move from mediocrity to the full extent of our joy. Tantra is a joyous art, one that will take us to great places if we allow it. The word Tantra is a Sanskrit word that has more than one English translation. The one that I feel expresses the essence of Tantra is: To Expand One's Consciousness.
Consider the word expansion in terms of our sexually. We are taught next to nothing about our sexuality. Our older friends or siblings taught us most of what we know about sex; they in turn were taught by, well you know the story. Our sex education is limited to Playboy magazine and porn movies. Men learn to masturbate fast before Mom hears them and women to fear boys for just wanting "sex".
Off to our twenties, we experiment with an energy that we know little about. We hurt others and get hurt more than once using the base component of sex. We get married, have children and sex becomes something less than regular. Women shut down; men lose their precious sexual energy by over ejaculating. Men start to experience a reduction in penis size, premature ejaculation and orgasms that often are not as strong as the ones in younger days. Sometimes the ejaculate comes out with little to no feeling. This is the severe depletion of sexual energy and it will eventually lead to sickness.
Why do we know so little about sex? There are many reasons. Naming them now will do little good, but the fact is that we know little. The most important thing you must realize is that your sex and how you use it will affect your health positively or negatively. Right now men only use 10% of their sexual energy and the 10% that they use is often spasmed out in a quick ejaculation. If the ejaculation isn't quick, it's usually attributed to more than one football game that is thought about during intercourse. Men are cheating their partners and themselves from to joy of lovemaking!
It is easy to understand why women often turn off the sex. They intuitively know when someone really does not know how to make love. Sex is not something that can be taught, via "goddess worship". It is something you must cultivate as you reclaim your sexual energy. Like Gene Kelly, one does not become a great dancer by jumping into the dance. They learn the steps, they feel the moves and it becomes whom they are. After a while they become great lovers. Just as after a while Gene Kelly cultivated the art of dance anyone who danced with him felt like they were floating.
Sexual energy is cultivated by taking the time to first learn what sex is and how it affects our bodies biologically, emotionally and spiritually. By allowing ourselves to feel and to use 100% of our sexual energy, we are doing ourselves a great favor. We will feel what we have never known we could feel. We will experience a truth that will affect every cell in our body, thus bringing great joy to our lives and our lover. Destructive life patterns will begin to move from us and joy will replace destruction.
So before you buy another expensive watch that will tell you not much more than how old you are getting, or before you have another expensive dinner, take some time, energy and money to finally learn what sex is and how to cultivate it. Are you not worth more what Playboy and porn movies have shoved down your throat as truth? Remember they make billons keeping the truth from you. The truth is now here, in the West taught by a few Dakini's and Dakas. Take advantage of this gift to Western society now.
A word of caution before you begin: throw out your perceptions of sex; remember to think out of the box. When you are looking for a teacher remember the rules I have taught countless men- if you see excess nudity you are being lured in for the slaughter. Goddess worship is a ploy used to get more money for a simple sex act, the ones you are already doing, or a very negative dominance ploy. Baths, well, what can I say, you can take one at home: massage -well how does it help a novice at Tantra?
The tools and teachers are here, real time, so now take the time to find the right one and learn what is your God-given-right .
To be the Multi-Orgasmic Man you were put on this
earth to be in joy and health.
Ps. I have enclosed an article on Dakinis and the different energies they may bring to you.
Ps.Ps. Your sexual energy is a fire; you can cook a meal with it or burn down your house. May you make a wise choice
Sky Dancing Angels
"The teaching of the whispered
lineage is the Dakini's breath"
A translation of Dakini is "Sky Dancer".
Generally when they are referred to in Buddhist literature it is assumed they are devoted to the Truth (Dharma). But the broader meaning of the word is a female (males are called Daka's) spirit who has some freedom but is still bound by their past actions. Thus there are good Angels and bad (or simply confused) Angels.
Thus there are worldly Dakini's who are malicious and use their powers to confuse us, to arouse passions that are destructive, and who use their charms for their own selfish purposes. Dakini's can manifest on earth in human form or take birth as a human. These are then called "worldly Dakini's" and I'm sure you've met at least one or two in your lifetime. Women (or men) who seem to be able to simply will things into being. People who are so charming that they seduce whatever they want from the world and enjoy it fully, yet also remain somewhat distanced from the results.
Dharma or Truth Dakini's are devoted to a higher purpose and so their actions are generally positive. But it is hard to generalize the actions of Dharma Dakini's since they aim to break our rabid fixation on concrete thoughts. Dharma Dakini's are not afraid to use their powers to dazzle us, arouse us out of our sleep of habits, and seduce us onto a path of truth. Dakini's are unpredictable. A Truth Dakini disrupts or breaks our habitual thought patterns with the miraculous, or simply opens our hearts with mad adoration. Messengers between our earthly realm and the higher realms of the teachers, they help to bring the powerful teachings to earth, protect the truth from destructive forces, and bring blessings to sincere seekers.
Dakini's do not manifest simply for our pleasure. Dakini's manifest the beauty of the Truth, which is in them as an invitation to follow the path of Truth. Sky Dancers help us through vision and inspiration. But although we can be greatly inspired by a Dakini (another word is Muse), they will only come back if we put into action what they have shown us.
In that regard a Dakini's love is unswerving and
always compassionate. It doesn't matter if we wait a few hours or
a few lifetimes to put our inspiration into action. Miracles occur
but sometimes it takes years to fully realize the implications. When
we do realize or remember, our hearts open, and again the magic and
majesty of the universe is open to us. The Dakini's celebrate the
Truth and our resolve to work for it in a most extraordinary way.
They dance in the sky.